If your partner is consenting, you will see them meeting you halfway on stuff, responding to your touch, touching you back, making approving noises, positioning their body helpfully, making occasional eye contact, smiling, giggling, kissing you, smelling your skin.
Let’s talk about consent in practice. | Disrupting Dinner Parties
If your partner pulls away, flinches, draws back, goes still, goes limp, freezes, is silent, looks unhappy, starts holding their breath, goes from meeting you halfway to merely allowing your touch: stop and check in with words. Maybe they’re ticklish? Maybe they want to stop.
A Beautiful List of nearly any Sterek Trope or AU Fic Rec You Could Possibly Ever Want
seriously I have this post basically permanently open as a tab on my iPad so I can sit down any time and say “oh man I could use some fic in which Derek is a fireman” or “I need more office worker Stiles in my life today” and I will find that thing on this list. Bless.
Stiles’ name is Polish and this is not an actual meta
Okay so since it’s been confirmed that Stiles real name is Polish, I wanted to make a comprehensive list of male Polish names for your convenience. This is in no way meta, but it can come in handy for all you fan fic writers out there. If you have any questions about pronunciation I’m all yours! I’ve added pronunciation to some of the names too. :)
ALRIGHT SO, THE LIST. PROCEED UNDER READ MORE